Hormonal hugs to you both Hope you both feel at ease soon !!
Many congratulations to Mr Pinky

My period is almost settling.i usually have diarrohea during this time and i was prepared with vaseline.strangely,i didnt have any loose stools but had 3 BMs quite well formed stools.dont understand
thanks Lecia and Tabby for the wishes.
corsi dear,hows PMS?
fissy-its always been worse for me during my period but this time i thought it would be different.ive always had diarrohea during my period esp the first day.how are you feeling?
my sis leaves tomorrow ill miss her a lot.donno how ill cope without her.

PMS has gone Pinky, but I really have bad PMS - I feel so strange...it's like I view the world and my surroundings in a different way, but I am aware of it and know that things become normal again :)
How are you doing buttwise Pinky? Healing? How do you manage you son, and family life?
Take Care :lovetree: Corsica

Corsi,i can understand how you feel.it will pass and you will be fine.
Buttwise,i dont feel normal.pain after BMs are reducing,some mild pain.its bearable but it still hurts to sit.i still sit on one bum.everyone here after LIS have been able to sit sooner than me.leaking is getting less but still there.my sis was helping me all these days.she left today and i miss her.she took very good care of me and now i feel lonely.we've been very close and talk everyday on the phone.but she cant stay here forever and she has her own life.she loves to stay with us but cant get more time off work.now its me and hubby with our son.hubby helps a lot but his exams are nearing and i want him to study well.dont have much of a life corsi.its the same routine.waiting to go to india as soon as i heal.i pray God to give me the strength and i go on.thanks for asking corsi

Hugs to you Pinky. I understand missing your family. I see my mom once a year and am pretty much on my own in a place that I don't consider home. Just take it little by little and don't compare your healing with others. You will always find someone who heals faster and someone who heals slower.
Things will get better and you will feel more situated as you make a new life for yourself and your family there. It just takes awhile and it makes it harder when you are sick and can't get out as much and feel like you can do normal things. But that will come. Don't give up.

Pinky,
Hope you are doing OK since your sister left. I'm so glad she was able to come and be with you for awhile. It is hard to see loved ones leave especially when they live so far away.
Congratulations to your husband!!!
Hope you are feeling better and better every day.
Take care.

Jo

Hi Pinky - I hope you will be able to handle all of it alone - actually I know you will - but it is hard to be alone with small baby not to mention with a fissure on top of it all !!! I wish you FAST healing and I hope you will be able to travel very, very soon !!!

Pinky
I agree with Lecia, your time will come..., but I do understand your desperation and and that you are blue now. When life is all about pain and discomfort it's hard to be positive and see the good things in life. You have butt problems, a baby and a caring, but busy husband and you feel lonely, but Pinky, you are still young and this will be over sometimes.
When my fissure was on it's most painful I had to force myself to focus on what was good in my life...you must do the same Pinky. You have a healthy baby who loves you more than you can imagine, you have a good husband, this condition isn't lethal (= you will be able to see your son grow up), you have family - not around you, but still they are there for you, and when it comes to your social life - things can only be better.
You will get friends where you live now when you heal and you are able to move, sit, run around again :)
Be patient, take small steps back to life and try to enjoy the things that are good in your life
Don't be afraid of crying...I think it's healthy, and it feels good when you are done.
Remember never forget that!!!!
:lovetree: Corsica

Corsi,
When you traveled with your fissure and salad bowl, was it difficult for you to sit?????
Cheryl

:hi: Pinky !
Sorry your sister had to go home it must have been comforting having her around..
You are going to be well soon and there will be exciting travels ahead !
Hope you are doing good today
xx