Cheryl, yep, time definitely flies, that's for sure :) The birth of my children and my fissure are the two easy ways I can track passage of time over the last few years hahahaha. You know, what's funny is that one of my "Fiber One guys" at work (he's 15 years older than me) told me he had fistula surgery 10 years ... and it was with a doctor in the same office as my CRS! When pressed for details, we figured out that his CRS was my CRS' mentor LOL :) Small world of ass doctors, I guess. And yeah, I'm beginning to realize that these problems are actually a lot more common than most people know.
Regarding food, I'd second the suggestions to avoid red meats and go high on boiled veggies. If you stick to those two rules alone, you'll be well ahead of the game already. When my fissure was in its heyday, I ate boiled veggie soup for every meal of every single day, and supplemented it with protein intake from chicken, fish, and other seafood. That was easy for me because I like seafood better than "land meats" anyway, and seafood is generally easier to digest (it's also expensive and put a bit of a hole in my wallet ... but better one hole in my wallet than a second hole in my rear, I guess). For snacks I ate whole grain stuff like Wheat Thin Fiber Selects.
Regardless of what you eat, the most important thing is to have a good stool softener and drink lots of water. Also, try not to over do it: at one point, I was getting 50+ grams of fiber a day, and that was overkill. Yes, my poops were soft and I was regular, but it was happening like every other second which wasn't exactly fissure friendly either

I should also say that some aspects of my diet have never really returned to normal even after LIS. For example, even now, I still eat boiled veggie soup for one meal every day. Usually it's lunch so that I can home after work and eat something with actual flavor for dinner haha :) Yes, eating the same thing every day is bland and repetitive, but it keeps ass problems at bay and actually saves me money. Like anything else in life, it takes practice plus discipline and you eventually get used to it.
Another good side effect: prior to the "fissure era" of my life, my triglyceride levels were sky high (well over the high mark of the reference range) thanks to a pretty nasty diet. Fast forward to 1.5 years after
living la vida fissure and they've dropped to just barely over the low mark of the reference range (in other words they're almost abnormally low at this point)! So when you're slurping down some veggie soup and thoughts of Big Macs are dancing through your head, just think, your mouth may hate you but your cardiovascular system is cheering
