by Morningstar » 22 Feb 2012, 16:24
Hi Davo, good luck on your surgery I am fairly certain it will turn out to be the best decision in your life :)!
I just read your entire thread and I was so reminded of myself a year earlier. I don't think anybody was more cautious with food (became even vegetarian), softeners, sitz baths, and "you name it new miracle cream I was sure nobody ever thought of before", but it all just added to my time of suffering.
The worst thing of all is I would always find a way to blame myself for setbacks, like if I only hadn't taken that rice or slept longer or relaxed more during BM, it was always something.
Now I only wished I had listened to both of mine CRS's who told me the incontinence fears are WAY OVERBLOWN in their opinion and one would even go so far to guarantee me none :)! Long story short, in my opinion everybody should give ointments a try but if it didn't work the first 8 weeks, move on with your life :)! Life is to short to spend it in the Fissure world!
Ps. Of course I am only speaking from my experience (18+ months of suffering, months of Nifedipine and 2 unsuccessful Botox injections) and from the perspective of a otherwise health, young 30 year old male. I genuinely have no idea if the risks associated with Post-partum females are significantly higher! Still can't imagine my life without LIS!