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Postby tman02360 » 12 Mar 2015, 07:32

Hi. New to this board wondering has anyone retear their anal fissure from masterbating I seem to heal up and the retear and the only thing I can think of is when I pleasure my self about a day after I seem to have problems again
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Re: sex

Postby PainedSA » 14 Mar 2015, 23:19

Hi tman - No answer for you but presuming you are a man I think it would be fairly common as the muscle that would extend with an erection could pull on the fissure?
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Postby Scientist2516 » 15 Mar 2015, 09:13

Male or female, if you tend to squeeze your muscles during arousal, that could irritate the anal sphincter.
Nifedipine/lidocaine, no help
Diltiazem, effective, but caused major rash
Nitroglycerine, effective.
Topical estrogen for final healing.
Gentle heat to bottom - pain relief, muscle relaxant
Kondremul mineral oil
Time - lots of time.
Status - Healed!
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Re: sex

Postby Mae » 15 Mar 2015, 10:29

Scientist2516 wrote:Male or female, if you tend to squeeze your muscles during arousal, that could irritate the anal sphincter.


I do that :( it's annoying and distracting cuz then I'm worrying about that instead of getting into the moment lol
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Re: sex

Postby PainedSA » 15 Mar 2015, 18:39

Ah there you go! Learnt something new every day :D I am glad I don't do that (not that I have a sex life anyway lol)
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Re: sex

Postby Mae » 16 Mar 2015, 19:41

I don't either technically, I'm in a new relationship and it's not to that point yet lol. Hopefully it won't cause any problems when the time comes haha.
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Re: sex

Postby PainedSA » 17 Mar 2015, 01:19

Its causing problems here :( I flatly refuse because I am suffering PTSD and birth trauma as well as the fissure so we actually havent had sex for 1 year now!!! Poor hubby :(
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Postby Mae » 17 Mar 2015, 09:27

That sucks! :( I'm sending prayers and positivity. For the ptsd and birth trauma too. I know my butt problems are caused and then aggravated by my anxiety. Hope you feel better soon *hugs*
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