Hi Sweet,
I am at a similar stage to you in the fact that my fissure was diagnosed around October last year. At the time the pain was unbearable, i would take sick days at the drop of a hat, BM's were like being stabbed in the butt with an extremely sharp knife and the spasms would be really painful and last for around 5 hours. I couldn't walk, sit, stand and on my worst day i had to sit on the floor outside the offices on my way to work i was in such pain.
For me any cream containing Hydrocortisone burns like hell and i have to immediately wash it straight off (this is common i am told). I have been on GTN (Nitro) for five weeks now and this has relieved a significant amount of the pain however i had a re-tear after a heavy night on the alcohol on New Years Eve (Big misake). My pain level is now around a 2 out of 10.
This Friday is 6 weeks since i started on the GTN and if it has not healed by then i have to re-visit the CRS. He told me that if i come back the next step is to put me to sleep and take a look inside with the camera to ensure nothing else is going on and then it will be botox injections (which i really dont want).
I was really hoping that i would be healed but as its Monday and the six week mark is Friday I just cant see it happening to be honest.
This fissure has ruined my Christmas & birthday and it has forced me to cancel a holiday. I am trying to plan my wedding this year but we cant get excited about it as this fissure is ruling our lives at the moment. I dont want the wedding to be remembered by drinking water, taking baths, monitoring BM's and eating a plate of veg at the reception!! Plus i dont want to be sipping water whilst getting toasted by the guests!
Personally i have decided to try and push my CRS for LIS as i just want this whole saga over and done with so i can get on with my life but i dont think i will get the CRS option!
Anyway thats my morning rant out the way :-)