Hey guys,
I haven't logged into this forum in ages. It's late here so I'll just do a quick recap.
I got LIS in August 2018. Surgery went really smooth. I was one of the rare patients who never needed a pain pill. I just felt sore and tender down there for a couple weeks. I hit a setback at one month post op and had a slight retear. I was super depressed and mad. I used nifedipine for another month but still had random bleeding during bowel movements anywhere from once a week to once every 3 weeks. This lasted for almost a year. Yep.
However, I never had any pain and never strained on the toilet. Around 10-12 months post op it became much less frequent. I also started using a vibrating dilator with lube to stretch out the anus and keep it relaxed. At 12 months I had a followup with a new doctor and he did a full anoscope and said everything looked totally healed. I was so relieved.
I haven't had any issues with bleeding or anything for over a year now. I consider my anus 100% fixed. Not that you asked, but anal sex is probably the ultimate test for an anus and I can finally do that again and it's been great. Just requires plenty of warming up with toys.
Best of luck to everyone here. Who would've thought THIS would be a problem we'd have to deal with in our lives. It was all I thought about for a year before and a year after surgery. I had already tried every other option and decided that surgery had a pretty high success rate so I went for it.