Hey all, longtime reader but just decided today to sign up and share my story.
Male, 27, always had really bad hemorrhoids.
I moved back to the USA from Asia Dec 2017. In January I started lifting regularly, something I hadn’t done in about 8 years. I noticed that I started to have twinges of pain in my butt after I would go to the bathroom in Early February but just thought it was hemorrhoid pain.
The pain got worse and worse and I don’t think my lifting was helping it. I would have awful pain after BMs in March/April But never saw any blood. Pain would last a few hours then subside. I started taking a class and noticed I would have pain when driving in my car, where the seats are pretty low.
I started using coconut oil in my butt as it felt soothing. I told my mom about it who is a nurse and she suggested it was a fissure. In June/July I had enough and figured it wasn’t going away so I stopped the lifting, sadly, and started caring for my butt. Drank tons of water, eating only vegan diet, and taking ibuprofen when the pain was really bad.
I got a rx of Diltiazem in September and have been using it twice a day since then. Before I started using Diltiazem the pain was more of a searing burning pain. Now, Dec 2018, the pain is more manageable and does not monoplaize my life as much. I’ve been using the Diltiazem longer than the recommended 8 weeks, but it’s healing slowly.
I find that the volume of poop is what sets me off. When I poop a lot it hurts way more. I usually have about 1 bm a day. The pain is now that deep throbbing ache, not burning or searing.
My journey has been super touch and go and some days I felt like this was never going to get better. I’m baffled as to why it happened, I can only blame the lifting, as it was the only thing that really changed in my routine. The positives of this whole thing is that I have seen how amazing a vegan diet is, and how great I feel especially since I stopped consuming dairy. Long story short, I’m defiantly not healed, but I’m not as bad as I was 4 months ago, for which I am extremely grateful.
So my questions for you guys: if you have had a similar story, how long until you felt you were fully healed? Also, how long will these spams last? I get them bad maybe 2x or 3x a week where they last for a few hours. That’s the real bothersome part for me.
Thanks to everyone who has shared on this forum. You’ve made me feel less alone in this painful and somewhat embarrassing time.