Hi, I had double advancement flap surgery 9 weeks ago. I never thought I would have to go through something like that but I did it. My stenosis was so severe I was on the verge of not being able to have a bm at all. I saw my CRS today and he said I'm doing really well, so well that he released me from the surgery. I'm thrilled. He explained that the pain I sometimes get is from the new scar tissue and surgical site and it will take about 2 years for that all to heal properly and calm down. The dilation I am doing is helping the new scar tissue stay flexible. While in the healing process it is very important to stretch that tissue. It's not always comfortable but it's helping. All the little twinges and tingling I'm getting is normal and at least I know that now so I feel better. I'm getting back to my life now and it feels good. I have one more surgery for a dental implant next week and then hopefully I can put this all behind me.
I'm eating a normal diet again with some fiber but I don't over do it and I take miralax at bedtime but only 4 teaspoons. This keeps the stool soft but formed. My CRS said he likes miralax because it's very adjustable. If I ever have to take medication that is constipating I just have to up the miralax and if my stools are too lose I lower the dose. It took me a few weeks to find what works.
I don't have anymore stitches either, the internal ones have dissolved and I'm happy about that.
Taking care of my behind will be something I will do forever. I'm so grateful for everyone on this site... All the well wishes and great advise. It helped so much.
If anyone is suffering from stenosis or a fissure that refuses to heal and this surgery is recommended don't be afraid of it. Even though it's a bit rough it's worth it in the end. If you have any questions about the surgery or recovery please feel free to email me. I'd be glad to answer whatever you ask.
My CRS bet me a cherry pie that I would like him again in 8 weeks so I baked one last night and gave it to him this morning not knowing it would be my last visit. We both had big smiles on our faces. I got a great big hug and a lot of well wishes from him and his staff.
If I can give any advice at all about this painful disorder I'd say don't give up. Keep pursuing whatever avenue you have to until you find what helps you. It may take a while but it's not hopeless. Thank you everyone. Suzy