by Happyending » 23 Sep 2016, 09:16
Hey normajeanchariot,
I was in somewhat of a similar situation as you. Pain during BM, but not always. Sometimes blood, but very little, gone with one wipe. Sometimes burning pain afterwards that can last up to 4 hrs, but most days I did not have his. There could be 1-2 weeks with no symptoms at all. So compared to many sufferers on here I probably had a mild case.
But I also could not completely get rid of it, and every few weeks I was phased with an inflammation which made BM quite painful. But I know how to get a grip of that and within a few days it was under control.
However, I was spending a tremendous amount of time curing myself. That included daily treatments of 2 hrs or more, plus all, the reading you do online looking for next best tip, newest miracle solution, vetting other people's recommendations, etc. All this time commitment took away from other things, foremost family, work, social life. So while my suffering was not as intense as what other people experience I know I couldn't life my life centered around this involuntary core interest.
That's what made me decide to go for LIS.
My main fears and concerns, in order of importance:
1. Pain after LIS
2. Healing progress and speed
3 will it be a 100% long term fix
4 incontinence, if permanent
5 temporary incontinence, hardly a concern