I got my anal fissure a couple of weeks after having my first child, almost 2 years ago. I haven't got rid of it since, despite having stopped breast feeding, diltiazem and botox. The pain has been out of this world, but it got a little better after my first botox shot. After my second child was born 5 weeks ago it has gotten a lot worse though and I am more or less panicking. I am thinking about giving breast feeding up in order to get another botox shot, or maybe surgery (though I really don't want to). It's such a relief to have found this forum, and to feel like I'm not alone (though I'm so sorry for you all!)
What is it with having babies and anal fissure? I have asked lots of doctors, midwifes and nurses here in Sweden, but no one seems to know and say it's more or less my own fault - because of my BM not being soft enough (but that has never been a problem). It seems very rare and few (even doctors) know much about anal fissures here in Sweden (or I guess people just don't talk about it as openly as I do). I'd love to understand the connection between having a child and anal fissures, to tell the doctors so I can get sufficient help. Does anyone here know? (I gave birth vaginally both times, but did not tear up much during labour.)
Thanks!
/Z