by Scientist2516 » 17 Oct 2014, 08:30
So so sorry, hopefulbutt. I wish there was something we could do to help. Maybe a second opinion would help. It sounds as though the CRS is giving you the brush off - Why isn't s/he talking to you? Why do you have to talk to the assistant? It does sound as though you need a new doctor, or else insist on talking to the fully qualified person, the one who actually did the surgery.
Your husband sounds wonderful. Hang in there; try to keep your spirits up (I know how hard it is!). Baby yourself today. Find a silly movie to watch to take your mind off things. My thoughts are with you.
Nifedipine/lidocaine, no help
Diltiazem, effective, but caused major rash
Nitroglycerine, effective.
Topical estrogen for final healing.
Gentle heat to bottom - pain relief, muscle relaxant
Kondremul mineral oil
Time - lots of time.
Status - Healed!