Hi,
To answer your question, I use Nelsons homeopathic calendula and hypericum cream..Not sure if you can get that in NZ but here it is about £6 for a tube.
In all honesty, I am not sure if things work or it just gets better/worse on its own! I used Lanolin as well for a while when it was bad and used to combine the lanolin with some medihoney, which seemed to work well for me. I have also used Dr Wheatgrass cream, which did also coincide with things getting better so maybe that is something to think about but a lot of people on here do not seem to have had much success with it.
I am not sure about the bleeding, mine used to bleed badly at the beginning but has not bled since March, although it did have a few spots the day before I saw the CRS and then he said it was 80%healed so maybe bleeding is not as important as we think?!
Hope you are having a better day today and that your appointment brings you some information. It is bloody hard to stay calm but it does so help!