I AGREE WITH LECIA !!!! Great idea !!!!!

Yes, let me find Wonderwoman for our Valley girl!

:WonderVal:

Pinky, I am so sorry. We really are in the same situation. I can totally understand how it is frustrating to heal slowly as the surgery is the last option after you have tried everything else. However according to statistics both of us should heal sooner or later. Maybe we should start to count months, not weeks.
Take care of yourself. You are in my thoughts.

:oops: :oops: :oops: :oops: aw, I dont know what to say! You are all so lovely! :heart7: :wub:
I think I shall have to stay in for 4 to 5 days but hope to escape sooner!!!
Cheryl, I'm having an atificial disc replacement in my neck!
I wouldn't mind looking like her at the moment!!

Thanks everyone.I should be patient.my sis leaves on sunday,only hubby for help.
hubby passed his theory exams which he'd taken the next day after my surgery.his clinicals will be in the last week of november and he has to prepare well.it's very important for him to clear the exam this time and i fear what if i get worse?im not carrying my son much at all nowadays after u all adviced.im eating the same food,everything same but donno why i feel the soreness.fissy,u r so right.im in PMS and waiting for my period.maybe thats the cause.i dread my periods PMS makes me feel low as well.i feel i shouldnt complain thinking of val.feel so sorry for you val.you have to deal with your surgery and your butt.you really are a wonderwoman!i agree with lecia's idea.we will miss you and will be praying for you.

started my period this evening preparing myself for a horrible day tomorrow.i usually have diarrohea and im dreading it.ill apply vaseline and be ready.hope it helps.

Good luck-I feel for you. I totally dread that time of the month.
Congrats to your husband for passing his theory exams!

Hi Pinky - so sorry for your discomfort - at least you know what caused your butt pain , as I suspected It is ALWAYS that way before the period - just no way around it :( . Any time I re teared my fissure was right before my period or during one - so - just hang in there dear Pinky and be extra careful until it goes away. I am expecting my period any day now and my butt started acting up this morning - some small burning - and all was just perfect for couple of days before - so period is a definite
"killer" for our butts .
Do you always get diarrhea during your period ? It must be very frustrating

Pinky :)
Yes use vaseline, it helps!
I will have my period as well now, have PMS de Luxe - feel like a maniac
Take care Pinky
Corsica