Thanks corsi,Fissy and Tabby.I dont feel very good.i feel very low.i dont know if i should start any meds or give it time.i just cant be happy and i try so hard to make an effort.im ok otherwise.i eat and sleep ok.love looking after my son and im happy only with him.i keep fighthing with my hubby for small things.dont know whats wrong with me.
The pain is getting better.still sore to sit on the butt directly.my son has a cold which he got it from my friend's son when they visited us this weekend.im mad at her for not telling me her son had a cold.its so uncomfortable for my son and he has a fever today.he doesnt want to eat much and has disturbed sleep.
hope everyone's ok.ill try to go through other threads.

Hi Pinky ,
I have been wondering how you are doing. You are always so helpful for everyone and I was worried cause I hadn't seen you around. I will be praying for you, I am sorry that you are having problems, it is so easy sometimes to say something you regret when you are not feeling well. You have so much to deal with - a baby and health problems would be stressful for anyone. Hope your son is better soon. I am glad you are sleeping well.

Take care of yourself.

Jo

pinky wrote:Thanks corsi,Fissy and Tabby.I dont feel very good.i feel very low.i dont know if i should start any meds or give it time.i just cant be happy and i try so hard to make an effort.im ok otherwise.i eat and sleep ok.love looking after my son and im happy only with him.i keep fighthing with my hubby for small things.dont know whats wrong with me.
The pain is getting better.still sore to sit on the butt directly.my son has a cold which he got it from my friend's son when they visited us this weekend.im mad at her for not telling me her son had a cold.its so uncomfortable for my son and he has a fever today.he doesnt want to eat much and has disturbed sleep.
hope everyone's ok.ill try to go through other threads.

Butt problems are hard to live with Pinky, and this shit affects everything in our lives.
Take care sweetie
Bloody Mary

Hi Pinky
Sorry to hear you are feeling blue and your wee babe has caught the cold
Its hard i know My husband gets the brunt of my moods too and i hate myself for that, its not easy for them either, they are right by our sides going through this too....
Talk to him Pinky .... Hug and make up ASAP it will make you feel so much better !
I hope you are both feeling better soon
Be strong

sorry you're feeling low pinky :( at least we all have each other here on the board. i'm glad you have your son to make you happy also. hang in there!

Would you say you feel worse emotionally or physically at this point? I can imagine how hard it would be to move, have a baby, have a fissure, have a husband in med school all at the same time. It happened sorta like that for me (though my husband was starting his first job). It is overwhelming just to move and have a new baby not to mention being in pain.
Even after the physical pain starts to subside it doesn't mean that mentally we have healed. I think most of us have some sort of PTSD from all of this.
It is normal to have spats-I know my husband and I do because we have no one else but each other and it is a lot of pressure. Try to schedule some family time with all three of you and reconnect.
Hang in there.

sorry you're so down, Pinky. This is such a depressing condition which kicks us back down every time we think we're on top of it, its no wonder you feel so blue and have rows with your hubby, I think we're all guilty of that!
Be nice to yourself and spoil yourself with something that makes you feel happy!
I hope you can feel better and more happy very soon.

Thanks corsi,juney,jo,tabby,lecia and val.I have tonsillitis now and dont feel good.Difficult to keep up the diet when not well.Trying to drink hot water as much as i can.
I feel worse emotionally Lecia than physically.The soreness is mild now but i still dont feel good.my hubby is working now and taking his membership exams on 26th.
im in pms and it all makes it worse.im so irritable and overreact for every small thing.then i feel like a psycho and wonder whats wrong with me.hubby tries to make up with me and knows how i feel.i was still mad at him this morning but he made up with me.there was too much stress and pain which has caused me to feel like this.im hoping i'll get over it once i go to india and spend time with my family and friends.
thanks guys for being there for me.love you all

Oh Pinky sorry to hear about the tonsillitis and PMS !! Not what you need right now
Keep thinking of India and spending time with your family and friends
When will you go Pinky ?
I hope you feel better soon..