Mr Bill (yea I don't wanna call ya uncle to make u feel any way and I rather not call you bill directly)
The rash thing apparently was just the salt for me. Would you believe that only two days of doing the right dose of salt in the sitz and that irritation has almost gone! We have a bidet to wash up after BM so I put it nice and warm and slow and it soothes it so nicely along with cleaning the area too. :oops: I saw your bounty post and I was going to try it but thank God the discharge is subsiding and I no longer have to worry about wiping
Thankfully for me I'm trying the no stress route as I just finished my degree so I'm just delaying everything until I am well. (I'm a little afraid of the Valium too)
That last comment is worrying me though. Haha not in a bad way but wow! I didn't think of that at all thank you for raising that. Before the surgery I used to love sitting in it (its one of those from amazon made of some synthetic material, I had an issue with the blow up one, dad killed it at the pump station!) But now I'm finding it sooo difficult to sit in it for long so I just stand. I figure this is why! thanks again for that.
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I think I'm frustrating my mum now, any time I have any issue I tell her and she thinks I'm complaining.
Side note, would you believe the stupid pain I had all afternoon went away as I took a bath
lol. I figure its the warm water. So yay!
Anyway good night guys and thanks Mr Bill for jumping on. I wish you success in your fight with AF (although i see from your post u said its healed so yay!) and everything else k? Take care of yourself.