Agree Diamond, it does make you feel like all or nothing, i explained that to my hubby that with all the creams and potions i put on before going to bed i feel dirty... and just dont fancy anything...
i to have a very understanding husband who has had to put up with this for just on a year, but also i have had 9 surgery,s in the last 10 years, so he is very understanding to it all, i am very lucky :D
you will get there Diamond, just think not long..