I'm so sorry you're in pain, Val
Do you have any meds to help with the pain? I really hope that goes away soon. From what others have posted about their experiences, the pain doesn't seem to last long, typically. Was that your experience before? Soon, very soon, BMs won't hurt!
Being weak and wobbly certainly sounds familiar! Be careful with yourself, you don't want to pass out like me! That's always a drag. I hope you are getting lots of help moving around and that you are being pampered very nicely.
The infection seems to be settling down. I'm really looking forward to seeing the surgeon on Monday. At this point, my anxiety level would go down quite a bit if I just had a sense of what is going on. But, the area is not as swollen or painful and the little bump is smaller than the top part of the head of a Q-tip. I'm just taking it easy today.
Hang in there, Val - the pain will diminish very soon and you will be feeling better as each day passes!