by small_flower » 16 Sep 2008, 18:07
I am going to suggest a couple of things.
#1. Try to get on a different pain medication. I took codeine and it didnt seem to constipate me at all.
#2. I think that part of the problem is that you are stressing so badly that it is preventing your body from doing what it needs to do. Find a way to relax! Meditate, take a bath and read a book, or find something else low key to do that you can enjoy.
Don't feel bad about having a fissure. To me, it sounds like you are really still in the stages of dealing with the embarrassment of the situation. Trust me, I was mortified when I figured out that I didn't have hemorrhoids and in fact had a fissure. I am 24! Even younger than you. :) So, while it may be harder in real life to be comfortable talking about your problem (and who could blame us, honestly, ass problems are pretty taboo) you don't need to be worried about mentioning anything gross, because I'm pretty sure that its all already been said.
We are here to support you! To answer any question ( no matter how gross) and to give you our two cents on just about anything! Even if it isn't fissure related. So let loose and ask as many questions as you want.
Good luck with your BM. I'd call your CRS if nothing happens soon, he/she will know what to do.
Good Luck,
Kate