Tell me about it!! I have actually been more successful diagnosing myself than drs have been. My wish now is to find a dr who will just listen to me and do what I tell them to do. "I feel infected"--here's an antibiotic. "I have spasms and want botox"--here's botox. That would have solve many, many problems for me. I'm still pissed that the dr who cut my abscess in my anal canal refused to give me botox.
anyway, hope you (Lecia and Val) are feeling a little better today.
Also, Val. don't blame yourself. I don't think the scented soaps would have caused the abscess and epsom salts are not disinfectants, so you did nothing wrong. what finally put my abcess over the top was that I got a minor bout of food poisoning--e coli--which infected the open wound. something like that has much more of an effect than scented soap. Perhaps you had a bad egg or an unwashed veggie. did they do a test to see what bacteria has colonized the wound??? the need to do so to be sure they gave you the right antibiotics. (I got the wrong ones the first time and had a MAJOR resurgence towards the end of the antibiotic cycle.)