And here I am again... I have my external hemmies flare up again. I'm pretty convinced it's due to finally having the courage to be intimate with my husband, which has confirmed my right to be fearful of it. Basically the following day I was having a soreness in my bum. Then when trying to have a BM it was hurting more than usual. Not broken glass hurting, but like "my fissure is healed and I'm about to tear it right back open" kind of pain.
I haven't seen any blood at all and where the pain is, I did have a fissure there, but I cannot see it anymore, I just see a lot of purple little bulges (hemmies)....so I'm thinking maybe it's just hemmie pain? I'm not sure. The pain lingers but doesn't necessarily get severe, but it does cause a soreness in my anal area, and i do feel it when I sneeze or cough

I want to believe it's just a hemmie flare up but sadly it is probably my fissure, which is probably deep inside so I cannot see it. Ugh. I'm pretty disappointed today. I also just bought my first home and I'm working on a job transfer, so there are a lot of big stressors going on in my life. I'm taking a nice hot bath right now hoping to feel better again soon

. The sad part is that I don't have the courage to let the doctor look inside my bum, so who knows if my fissure is chronic and only showing intermittent pain. Who knows.. Blah. This sucks. Back to nifedipine and heating pads.