by Happyending » 17 Nov 2016, 14:17
Hey Hopingforhealing, I am glad my posts were helpful. I benefitted in the same way reading other people's posts a few weeks ago.
UPDATE:
It's been exactly 8 weeks since my surgery, time for another update.
The good:
I have been pain free ever since the surgery, which is amazing. There was some little pain the day following surgery, but it was manageable with ibuprofen. I still don't comprehend how the surgery basically switched the pain off. So, in that respect I am wonderful. No pain whatsoever, also not during BM. Also, no incontinence whatsoever.
The bad:
What could be really "bad" here if I am pain free? I guess I should call it areas of concern, or yet to be met expectations.
1. Surgery had caused thrombosed hemorrhoids for me, which I presented to the CRS too late an she did nothing about it. It was unpleasant, but not painful. She told me the body would absorb the blood clots within 6-8 weeks and that has pretty much happened. However, i am left with some extra skin down there, which makes wiping a bit more cumbersome.
2. The surgical incision has not fully healed, which according to my CRS is most unusual. She has never see this happen before. My incision is on the outside, and there is still a small open gash. It's not painful, I could sit on it all day long. But the CRS is worried that a "crevasse" in such a sensitive area could spell all sorts of trouble. She wants to wait and see what happens, and I can decide to have it fixed anytime. Since it's outside the anus is should not be very painful. I am postponing that decision to 2017.
3. I am still taking extra fiber and one stool softener per day. I don't mind the fiber, but would want to get off the stool softener eventually. Not so soon I guess, because there is still some blood sometimes. That's very strange, as it had completely stopped for a week or so. It's only after BM, first / second wipe. I don't know if the blood is from the old fissure (quite concerning), new fissures (equally concerning), or the yet to fully heal incision wound (not concerning, as it will eventually heal one way or the other). The biggest worry is that LIS would have no long term effect and the sphincter is getting tight again. I have gone back to consuming coffee, and that might have firmed up the stool a bit too much. Also, that sometimes requires light pressing during BM. So the logical decision for me would be to watch my diet better, quit the coffee. That was no problem back in the days when I was suffering. But now that there is no pain, it's really hard. At the same time I am telling myself not to be stupid, and just stop drinking caffeine.
Conclusion: Overall, surgery was still an immensely good decision and I have seen major improvement.
More updates to come in due time. Wishing everybody on here continued progress and healing.