well the doc at emergency did look down there, said she couldn't see anything bad, but it's likely higher up, that's why she referred me to the colon Doctor at the hospital.
She said that my lower pelvic area felt very tight, especially on the front side below belly button. She said sometimes rectal inflammation can cause general pelvic spasm, causing urinary retention.
I have never tried anti depressants, she said it can help with general anxiety and pain. Only would give me 4 Ativan....they don't subscribe it in general here, although it gave me 10 hours sleep last night, best in a year.
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