My pain is about 3 as well and is only present after BM but lingers through the day, I don't have as much pressure as before but still have a bit, my main concern is having a second LIS as the incontinence risk goes up, besides the post-op pain
I know how you feel, I desperately want my life back too, that "normal" bum feeling is somewhere out there, it sure is an exciting thought not to be thinking about your bum 24/7, I want this..
You're right about the Diltiazem being less effective, I need to wait until I see the CRS.