by derryboy » 20 Nov 2009, 07:49
well its been 5 months since my fistula was laid open.i wast told everything would heal with 4-6 weeks. tbh overall i think it was about 10weeks.
i think it varies quite a lot depending on how big/deep the wound is and probably how strong your immune system is.
The nurses looking after me told me they have a patient, a young guy, who had his op at the beginning of the summer and he is only just starting to heal now - he would bleed a lot at every dressing change. apparently he has blood clotting issues.
what started my fistula was an perianal abcess, the site of the abcess wound still splits a little every now and then, thats 8 months post op and my wound,It has healed very slowly but consistantly so far, with no setbacks. apart from spliting, and getting tender and swollen if i sit, walk, bend, and even having a BM can causes all the above
These are the things which I felt helped, or not, as the case may be:
I take zinc and vit C supplements daily.
I am eating lots of protein, fresh fruit and veg. No/little processed food or fried food.
Physical activity, such as walking, to keep up blood-flow, therefore supplying oxygen to wound area.but to much can cause spliting to,so don't overdo things and try to get plenty of rest.
try an avoid pressure or friction to wound: avoid sitting down as much as you can. Keep driving to a minimum if at all possible: I have found that if I have spent too much time in the car or in front of the computer, the wound bleeds slightly.
Finally, I really do believe that a positive attitude helps enormously. Everyone is different, but this is how I personally have tried remained positive:(so hard at times really hard)
- I have not looked at my wound, NOT ONE SINGLE TIME. I would rather not see it, and prefer to just have a mental image of healed skin back there.
- My surgeon said at the beginning it could take 3 months to heal, but after reading info on other sites i feel now its all guess work by them. everyone is diferent and heal quicker than others.
the area of any perianal abcess is always going to take a very long time until it stops being tender, etc, i can have days of greatness in the area, the powwww, its swollen tender(not painful)....scaring in the anal area from any surgery takes time, remains tight,(thats why the wound splits at times, scar tissue does not strech, and being in the anal, buttocs area well is not the best place to have scar tisue, sitting on the loo can cuz a split,
just clean yourself good if and when it does with a shower head , no soaps nothing, just good old warm, water, and gently dab te area with a nice soft sponge, and even after a BM get that sponge dabing, instead of tissue.. i used to use baby wipes but found they iratated things, so i stick to plain old warm shower water,
so if you find spiting of any wound in the anal buttocks area dont worry, even after 8 months, just keep it clean
so thats a rough update,