Hi Dazlily,
So sorry you are suffering this pain. Myself and others on here have had this awful pain and suffering, we are all here for you. I would avoid all white goods, as they cause constipation and hard stools. Taking olive oil is good. Could you get hold of any kind of stool softener? Lactulose or Movicol? These are gentler and will soften the stool but won't make you run. I too take antidepressants to deal with this on a daily basis. If it helps then I think it is okay. Sorry your family don't help you, but you do need to talk to them to try and come to some decision on treatment. Please keep us posted on how you are doing. Xxx

Dazlily, I feel so badly for you. It's awful that you have so much pain. You've had some good advice already. Here's mine - drink a lot of water. You must keep hydrated, or your colon will pull water out of the BM and make it hard and dry. Try to drink several big glasses of water every single day and avoid caffeine and alcohol because they are diuretics and will make you pee more and dry out your stool.
Hugs and best wishes.

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