Thanks,
suzyljank (sorry I didn't thank you before -- I haven't logged on in a while).
I took the advice here and made a complaint and the “patient experience” team at the hospital arranged it so I would see the consultant at my next appointment rather than a member of his team.
That was today and it was a lot better than my last appointment, though still stressful. Unfortunately I’m still getting pain and the surgeon couldn’t actually see anything from the exam so he wants to do a more thorough one under general anaesthetic and then do botox injections if he feels it’s necessary. At first I just said no to everything and that I would rather just put up with it but he talked me round. Now I have agreed to the exam under anaesthetic and have said I’ll think about the injections and can decide on the morning of the procedure.
But I think I might bottle out of the whole thing. I just can’t bring myself to tell anyone about all of this, other than my boyfriend, and I don’t know how I’ll be able to hide having a general anaesthetic from my mum seeing as I live with her! And I feel so completely terrified about having a general anaesthetic (even though I’ve had one before :roll: ).
I just feel so worn down and totally devastated by this whole experience. I try not to be self-pitying but in this instance I can’t help asking why this is happening to me and just feeling so totally sorry for myself. I really, really want to die.