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Re: Whats left to live for?

Postby Alyssa » 10 Nov 2014, 21:17

Hope he is doing better...
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2/14 Fissure developed
3/14 Diagnosed w/ fissure given Nifedipine
4/14 Referred to Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy=Pelvic Floor Dysfunction
5/14 Fissure declared "healed"/chronic anal pain persists
9/5/14 Botox to pelvic floor
9/22 biofeedback
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Re: Whats left to live for?

Postby ruined_life » 03 Dec 2014, 19:53

I had a meeting with a second CRS and said nothing was wrong, and surely enough like 3 days later my fissure torn again. Im feeling more hopeless. I feel that I am being stigmatized because Im gay. CRS here book appointments around 7 months in advance. I am starting to self dilate but im afraid it will just re-tear. I use basically every home remedy. My anus is sore and irritated every day, the first CRS said I have Anusitis. I have have stayed sticking to the recommended Diet but its not helping. I hate my life so much. I have lost two potentially longterm relationships because of my problem since my last post. I take robaxin every day now. Can anyone please forward me post anal fissure anal sex success stories? My GP and all the CRSs i have seen dont give a F**k about me.
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Re: Whats left to live for?

Postby Scientist2516 » 04 Dec 2014, 23:38

Ruined_life, my heart goes out to you. I really hate that the doctors aren't helping you. I must say we've had similar stories from other gay men, and I think it stinks. I wish we could find a gay-friendly CRS. They must exist.
I wish I could help.
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Nifedipine/lidocaine, no help
Diltiazem, effective, but caused major rash
Nitroglycerine, effective.
Topical estrogen for final healing.
Gentle heat to bottom - pain relief, muscle relaxant
Kondremul mineral oil
Time - lots of time.
Status - Healed!
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Re: Whats left to live for?

Postby Alyssa » 05 Dec 2014, 01:34

Rl,

I'm sorry too that I can't help you.. We understand how frustrated you feel because we all have been through it.. Keep looking for another doctor that can help you. Where are you located, perhaps others have some suggestions on what to do, who to see in your area.
2/14 Fissure developed
3/14 Diagnosed w/ fissure given Nifedipine
4/14 Referred to Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy=Pelvic Floor Dysfunction
5/14 Fissure declared "healed"/chronic anal pain persists
9/5/14 Botox to pelvic floor
9/22 biofeedback
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Re: Whats left to live for?

Postby Savaici » 07 Dec 2014, 03:25

RL, you might want to try this link: http://www.glma.org/index.cfm?fuseactio ... 8&nodeID=1
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