Sorry Hendrick that your appt was cancelled. Hang on in there... it will get better. we are all here for each other in these crazy,horrible butt times!
It could be an external Hem. Is it purple, and does it swell upon BM?. I have an external Hem, and when i had the Botox and 2 internal hems banded last week, the CRS said he didn't want to cause anymore trauma in the area, so he left it. Apparently they do go away on their own most of the time. Unless it is a skin tag?
Can i ask you when you had the Botox, did you get a weird tingling, itchy sensation!?? I am getting this now after BM, it is early days yet, but i can feel the pain has lessened. I just hope the Botox can work for me.
I cannot advise on the surgery, but there are plenty of people on here who can. Good luck, keep us posted...