Thankyou all... You really are helping me so much...
As for me.... Well... I finally heard back from mr w after I emailed him the same email I sent last week whilst he was away on leave. He got back to me less than 5 mins later which was great. He said not to worry, 5 weeks is still early in recovery for this type of surgery, and he will try and squeeze me in for an appointment before next month.
I spose it is reassuring to know that yes, it really is still early days, and the type of surgery I had was still an aggressive surgery in a very fragile area.
I have got some more antibiotics, but have held off them for now... I'm doing warm sitz ( thankyou W. spirit) and just seeing if its a blip or developes further.
I would say my pain was around the 7-8 mark at the moment.... I'm praying it starts to turn a corner soon.
