Juney-
Do you take probiotics? Where does it hurt? On the incision site or just general anal tissue pain? I am wondering if you could have a yeast infection? I got those a lot when I was healing the wounds because I took a lot of baths. It made the pain unreal.
I would also see if someone can do a stool culture and check for yeast and also bad bacteria. I had all sorts of bad stuff and no good bacteria in my gut and had to do a 2 week round of cipro and then heavy duty probiotics.
I am praying for you and think about you. It just isn't fair how you suffer.