Thanks Rachel I think I'm getting the hang of it now! Lol!
I can't believe that they won't give the gtn, my gp gave it straight away but it didn't seem to have any effect apart from awful headaches! I back off to my gp this afternoon and he thinks the Lis is the next step, I know of two people who suffered for 20 years plus and had great success with the surgery so I think I'll push for this option. Let us know how you get on with the Botox though.
A quick question to both of you - have any of the tears extended along the perenium - mine have and that seems to be where the pain is coming from?